Saturday, June 9, 2012

Starting to Drape

I had big plans for today.  I was going to get a good start on sewing my new drapes for the rec room.  First, I made lists, because I'm that way.  I sketched out our game plan on the white gray board and made David and Eddy help me with the measurements and the math (lots of math = good for summer brains!).



I did all this while the little ones were napping, of course.  Any time I lay out fabric while they are around, they want to sit and lay on it.  And stay there.  But today, I planned ahead.  And because of my stellar planning skills, I was able to...

cut one piece of fabric into four pieces.  Three cuts.  That's all.

At this rate, I may be able to thread my sewing machine by the end of Monday.  Woot!

Friday, June 8, 2012

Buyer's Remorse

I did go fabric shopping, at my very favorite home decorating fabric outlet.  I found some material I love for the draperies that was only three dollars a yard!  But when I go home, I felt a pang of buyer's remorse.  I didn't feel bad because I had bought things (I still love the fabric), but rather because I had left home to go shopping.

The little ones were all asleep when I left, but they evidently woke up before I got back home, because I walked in on this party:


Both twins and the Angel had an egg bash while I was out.  Where were the older brothers?  Reading books, totally oblivious.  <sigh>    Shall I mention the newly-emptied sugar shaker?  Or the waterfall in the bathroom?

At least now my kitchen floor is nice and sparkly clean!

Rec Room Rehab

A few years ago, one of our older boys asked if he could have some friends over to make pizzas and watch a movie.  I want my boys to be socially well-adjusted, and I totally want them to hang out at our house with their friends.  It's something their dad and I always wanted.  So I said yes.  He had his friends over, they had a great time, and the rest of the family spent the evening, hungry, hiding out in the hallway because it hadn't occurred to me that we would need a place to eat and sit while the party was occupying our living room and kitchen.  Our little bitty living room and our little bitty kitchen.

Having more than one living area was one of the main reasons we moved to a bigger house (plus the minor detail that we had run out of bedrooms).  Our new-to-us home has three living spaces: a living room that we live in, a family room that we live in (and eat in at our extra-long table), and a recreation room where we store leftover things.  We keep random things down there, like the substantial 1970's end tables that look like treasure chests; old drapery hardware that we took down over a year ago when we repainted; a pool table we love playing with but mostly set things on; a collection of baby gates we don't use since the twins figured out how to combine their strength and knock them over; and a large cabinet made of particle board we found in a basement closet.  Here, for your viewing pleasure, is a picture-poem of our rec room's loveliness.


The rec room is an L-shape, with one skinny wing to the west, and the larger leg heading north.  Here, in the West Wing, we have the green couch we inherited with the house, sun-faded along the front edges of the cushions.  It is sturdy and firm, so we'd just need to recover it (and replace one of the feet so it doesn't rip the carpet every time we move it).  Next to the couch is the pile of bed pillows I found hiding here and there, and the particle-board cabinet.


At the end of the West Wing sit the treasure-chest end tables that I think my (far-distant in the future) grandchildren would find enchanting, and the big TV with a hole in the screen which happened when Eddie threw the remote during an altercation.


<In my best tour-guide voice>  Looking to the east, we see the futon we keep for overnight guests, the pool and Foosball tables, and the sectional sofa which I love, but unfortunately is not mine.  We are storing it for my little brother.  I regret that we can't fully appreciate the copper-colored metal window blinds or the square holes in the ceiling where the lights are supposed to go.


Here is another view of the North Wing, where we can see the sliding door which leads to the patio, through the miniature room housing a second-hand exercise machine.  The blue and green balls on the floor are  loving reminder that little children, as well as big boys, live here.

I like our rec room, especially when it is tidied like it has been for the past few days.  But I think it needs a little bit of sprucing up.  I'm not complaining - it looks better that it did when we moved in!

I think I'll head over to the fabric store to get some draperies when the little ones take a nap.  That's a good start.

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Cleaning Bathrooms

We had an unexpected houseguest last night, and we scurried to get our home presentable.  Funny how we do that, huh?  Wouldn't it be nice to keep up the housekeeping, instead of doing panic-cleaning?  Or just have it look lovely for us?  One day...

Anyway, we tidied and cleaned, and I scrubbed out the downstairs bathroom.  I may need to take back some of what I said about the boys keeping their bathroom fairly nice.  Back behind the toilet was... ew.  Not bad-gagging-call-the-haz-mat-team kind of ew, just oh-yeah-there-are-a-buch-of-boy-who-live-here kind of ew.  And I cleaned it all up.  Moms do that.  And I didn't even complain (or wrinkle my nose).  I just jumped in and tackled a job and did it.  I can do hard things - and even some not-desirable-but-not-terribly-hard things.

And now I have two shiny bathrooms.  I kinda like that.

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Strong Words

The boys clean their bathroom every day - or at least they claim to.  They have to tidy, straighten the towels, empty the garbage, swish the toilet, and do CSM (sink, counters, mirror) every day.  Every.  Day.  And it stays relatively passable and gag-free, which is impressive for bathrooms in a house with seven boys.

But not my bathroom.  No, it doesn't get such loving attention.  It gets spots on the mirror and random building hardware takes up residence on the counter.  Somehow, the toothpaste tubes multiply until there are three or four of them hanging around, gossiping about the fingernail clippings behind the tissue box.  A colony of safety pins gather in the wine goblets (I don't know why the goblets are there.  But they are.).  A brush that never gets used, a collection of little girl hair clips, and a few safety pins get stuck in the grime that slowly grows up around them.  And then the hair - the bits that fall out of the electric razor, the wiry snippets left over from the last haircut, and the long snaky hairs that are forever falling out of my head - it all gets pretty gross.  Sorry for the TMI.

It sits there, getting yucky and yuckier.  I wonder when Trent will clean up his messes, and he wonders when I will clean up mine.  Don't judge.  Actually, go ahead and judge - I always do.  I walk in the bathroom and wonder what kind of nasty slacker would let her bathroom get icky like this.  What kind of lazy slob am I, anyway?

Strong words.  Shouldn't we use them to build people up, instead of tearing them down?  Especially when those someones are us.  We are so hard on ourselves, aren't we?

So today I cleaned my bathroom.  It really didn't take very long, and it looks so much better.  I can even see the 70's paisley pattern on the countertop again.  Hopefully it won't take very long to clean out all the icky thoughts, either.

Monday, June 4, 2012

Hard Things

I was thinking about this statement today, and I remembered a story I neglected to tell.



Chris had a project to do in his gifted eighth-grade English class this year.  I mention that it was a gifted class for two reasons: (1) it's a Mom brag thing, and (2) they can do more odd assignments than regular classes.  Anyway, his project was to accomplish something substantial.  Big and open-ended.  The teacher knew what the kids were capable of, and the kids knew the teacher's expectations.

Chris decided to create a video game.  I will admit, I was skeptical.  I really didn't think he could do it, and I worried that he would be setting himself up for frustration.  I wondered if he would spend more time playing on the computer than on doing his assignment (he did get distracted, but not as much as I feared).

Anyway, he did it.  He found something that he was interested in, researched it, delved in, and accomplished it.  Chris wrote, designed, and produced a video game, complete with plot, characters, landscape, and animation.  He did a hard thing, and I'm proud of him.  And although it's hard to eat crow, I'll say it.  You were right, buddy.  Good for you!

Saturday, June 2, 2012

A Baby in Your Tummy

I went to a baby shower for my cute niece today.  I took little Angel, because baby showers are a girl thing.  She had lots of questions about babies in tummies, and if you could open up the tummy, and girls turning into mommies.  I like answering innocent questions.

After we got home, she looked at my midsection, stretched from seven pregnancies, and sweetly asked, "Mommy?  Do you have a baby in your tummy?"  No dear.  I just have an absence of abdominal muscles, and everything just knows how to pooch out if I'm not sucking it in.  And you helped do this to me.  Oh wait, I just thought all that.  I really only laughed and said, "No, I don't have a baby in my tummy."

"Well," she announced, rubbing her tummy vigorously, "I do!  I'm a mommy now, too!"  She walked around for a while in this exaggerated way, back swayed, tummy pushed out, and her hands protectively caressing the bulge.  She really looked the part!

So here is our Ode to Motherhood: a Pictorial Representation of Passing the Maternal Love From Generation to Generation.


Stage One: protecting the new life

Stage Two: loving the heck out of our babies - whether they want us to or not.  I think the green foam rollers add another realistic touch of nostalgic motherhood, don't you?


And just for fun, here is a totally candid posing of how ladies get to the state depicted in the first photo.  (Isn't it interesting that what is, at three years old, an innocently grouchy attitude can be looked at as something entirely different if she were older?)